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Saturday, December 15, 2007
Female Masturbation Techniques
There is no right or wrong way to do it . As long as it feels good and you aren’t going to harm yourself, it’s okay. Pleasure is the goal and however you get there is perfect. So this article is written mostly for the women out there who are curious about masturbating, but just don’t know where to begin.
First of all, set up a comfortable environment for yourself. If you’re going to use toys, get them and your lube out and near the play area. Read an erotic book or watch an erotic movie. Think of a past sexual encounter that really gets you hot, or fantasize about one you’d like to have. Whatever gets you in the mood will help you do it.
Here are some different areas to stimulate when masturbating.
Clitoral Stimulation
You can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators, rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure. It is the spot. Women are very excited by stimulation of the gspot, but some women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some sort of clitoral stimulation. And some women can not receive any clitoral stimulation until she is well aroused, because it is so sensitive. And then others just find clitoral stimulation irritating. And there are many ways to stimulate the clitoris.
By using your fingers or hand, you can rub, stroke or pinch the actual clitoris. You can also rub the area around the clitoris. One good move that I like to do is grab the skin around the clit and rub it together. This kind of indirectly stimulates the clit. The clit is kind of like a small penis, although much more sensitive. So you can grab it and stroke it, just like you would a penis.
The all important shower massager head can be wonderful too. The shower head where you can adjust the stream of water, a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting. In fact, I’m getting excited just thinking about it. Just be careful to not send strong streams of water into the vagina for a very long period of time because it can cause air embolism.
I love vibrators, my favorite being the Hitachi Magice Wand. I have several different ones for different days and different moods. Holding a vibrator up against your clit is the way to feel the maximum amount of vibrations. But since clits can be extremely sensitive to that, you can also hold the vibrator around the general area. If the vibrations are too strong, just put a towel or washcloth between you and the vibrator/massager and that will lessen the intensity as well.
G-Spot Stimulation
There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the Ribbed G Vibe. By using some type of dildo, you will also get that added feeling of fullness in your vagina, which kind of completes the whole experience. Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all the better. Many women do find it easier to use some kind of toy.
Anal Stimulation
The anus is a very sensitive area of the body. It holds a lot of tension and can be associated with a lot of misery, but when given a little bit of TLC (tender loving care), it can bring you to a wonderful place. You can explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or small insert able anal toys. There are many to choose from, mine being the Anal Teaser. Just make sure that whenever you insert a toy, finger, etc. into your anus that you have plenty of lubrication and make sure whatever toy you use has a flared base on one end of it!
Vaginal Stimulation
And last but not least, there’s always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are an absolute butt load of dildo’s and vibrating dildos on the market. These are great for the times when you don’t want anything fancy, but still want some pleasure. These dildos come with no fancy attachments, it’s just a dildo to penetrate yourself with. I love the Dildo with Suction Cup because you can easily use it in the shower. And if your fingers or hands feel good too, than go for it!
Breasts
Let’s not forget about them. Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching nipple clamps the can be very exciting. If you’re breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself. This can be extremely pleasurable. The breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play. There is no right way to do it. You don’t even have to get naked. Just relax and explore your body and see what feels good. Anyway you do it is your choice, just have fun. That’s the point of sex and sexual play, having fun doing it.
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